About Carmen

Wife, mother, and avid reader

Little Princes: One Man’s Promise to Bring Home the Lost Children of Nepal

Thanks to my friend for recommending this book: Little Princes: One Man’s Promise to Bring Home the Lost Children of Nepal by Conor Grennan.

littleprinces  Grennan tells the story of how a short volunteer stint at a orphanage in Nepal transformed his life. He discovered that the children he thought were orphans were actually trafficked children with living parents. He then works to find the parents of the children, and also to stop other children from being trafficked by starting Next Generation Nepal.  Intertwined with this story is the story of how Grennan met, dated, and married his wife.

Grennan’s story starts a little slow, but once I got into it I could not put it down. Fortunately, I had plenty of time to read on our road trip.

Our Library Bag Favorites: Plants, Gratitude, and Jan Brett

I love that David is as much of a bookworm as I am. Here are our favorite picks from this past week:

thankyouforme  Thank You For Me! by Marion Dane Bauer.  I had no idea this was a book that included prayer – a great bonus!  Each night we thank Jesus for things from the day. Recently David has been saying “Thank You Jesus for something.”  This book gives him more ideas.

 

 

on_noahs_ark_jacket_300  On Noah’s Ark by Jan Brett. I love Jan Brett, but I had assumed that none of her books would be appropriate for a two-year-old. This was a hit for us. The illustrations are the best for Noah’s Ark that I’ve found. We learned a new animal: flamingo.

 

 

updownandaround  Up, Down, and Around by Katherine Ayres. This is the wrong time of year for this book, since it’s all about growing a garden. I thought I’d still include it though so I wouldn’t forget about it for next year.  Ayres describes which plants grow up (peppers, broccoli. . . ), which plants grow down (carrots, potatoes, onions. . . ), and which plants grow around and around (pumpkins, cucumbers. . . ). It’s also super-fun.

 

 

This past week I’ve finished reading: Orphan Train, Ender’s Game, A Can of Peas, and The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn. I started reading The Red Badge of Courage and The Forgotten Garden.

David’s Library Picks: A Squirrel, A Pony, and Some Fish

Here are some of David’s favorites from the week:

ponybrushesteeth  Pony Brushes His Teeth by Michael Dahl. The other night David cried because he wanted to read this book. I guess that is a sign of a good book.  And, it is completely perfect for us since we are working at how to brush teeth (besides just sucking the toothpaste off the brush.)  Dahl describes Pony’s teeth-brushing routine, as Pony does everything just like his dad.

 

The Busy Little Squirrel by Nancy Tafuri. tafuri squirrelThis book is PERFECT for this time of year. Squirrel can’t play with his friends because he is busy collecting food for winter: acorns, seeds, corn, etc. David loves finding the spiders and caterpillars on most of the pages. This is totally toddler-appropriate and I love not having to paraphrase!

 

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Hooray for Fish by Lucy Cousins. This book is full of fun pictures and descriptive language. Perhaps David also loved it because we often visit a local fish/pet store for fun (or to kill time). Maybe it is time for a pet fish?

Toxic Charity

If I owned this book, it would be all-marked-up.

toxic charity Robert Lupton, in Toxic Charity: How Churches and Charities Hurt Those They Help (And How to Reverse It), tells stories of how well-meaning individuals and organizations hurt the people that they were trying to help. Fortunately, he doesn’t just talk about the problems. (Because, really, I don’t want to ignore the poor – that’s not helpful either!)  He gives some advice and shares stories of ways to effectively minister to people in need.

Lupton differentiates between a chronic poverty need, and a crisis need.  He writes that “When we respond to a chronic need as though it were a crisis, we can predict toxic results: dependency, deception, disempowerment.”  We should be responding to both types of need – for example chronic homelessness AND homelessness due to a crisis such as a fire – but we need to respond differently for each situation.

I appreciated the personal stories he shared from his life and experience. He told the story of how his church changed from doing a clothing giveaway program to a family thrift store, and how people who used to receive free clothing are now employed at the store and able to buy what they need. I don’t think that giveaways are always wrong, but I do see how there are other options that can help in greater ways.

I’m still thinking through a lot of what he wrote, and perhaps I won’t agree with everything he said. He does have years of experience in community development work, however, and a lot of what he said seems to ring true, especially after I read The Poor Will Be Glad. I do want to read more on this topic, however, and I noticed that the library also has When Helping Hurts.

David’s Library Bag: Demolition, Green, and Penguins

Here are some books that David began to memorize this week:

demolition Demolition by Sally Sutton. My favorite part of this book is hearing David say “demolition.”  He loves seeing the machinery knocking down the buildings, and reciting some of the words with me. I love the descriptive language! Sutton also wrote another favorite of ours – Roadwork.

 

 

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Green by Laura Vaccaro Seeger. This is a super-fun book – covering all the different types of green – faded green, forest green, lime green (David likes to pretend to eat the limes EVERY time), jungle green, etc. Once again Seeger does a beautiful job with illustrations and the holes in the pages that David adores putting his finger through. She also wrote First the Egg, which I blogged about here.

 

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If You Were a Penguin by Wendell and Florence Minor. This is the book that David has mostly memorized (which means no skipping pages for me!)  It was also featured as PA’s 2009 One Book Every Child initiative, which is no surprise considering the adorable penguin illustrations and easy-to-read informative text.

 

 

Extending the Table: Recipes and Stories from Argentina to Zambia

A month or so, I was really struggling with motivation in the kitchen. I wanted to eat, but I didn’t want to make anything. And I kept wanting to eat Asian food. AND David had started eating everything in our cupboards. Then I remembered a favorite cookbook of mine- Extending the Table: Recipes and Stories from Argentina to Zambia. I decided I was going to try and cook through it, just as I had done with Simply in Season. (Well, I’m about 10 recipes short from having cooked everything, but I cooked most of the ones that looked appetizing.)

ExtendTable_ST_0  Extending the Table contains recipes, stories, and proverbs from all around the world.  I’ve had so much fun in the past couple of weeks. In one meal, I’ve served soup from Venezuela and bread from Botswana. And yes, I’ve been finding some fun Chinese and Filipino recipes to satisfy my Asian cravings. This book has great organization – you can search by ingredient or country.

Emily Welty has blogged about her experience in cooking through Extending the Table: http://extendingthetable.wordpress.com  I also just discovered that a new edition is coming out in May 2014 – wahoo!

What are your favorite cookbooks?

Do You Wear Diapers?

doyouweardiapersI found this book and I just had to buy it. Do You Wear Diapers? by Tonya Roitman. Each page features an animal and the phrase “Do you wear diapers?” Then the animal explains where it goes to the bathroom. We’ve been talking a lot about where David goes to the bathroom, which, currently is in his diaper.

 

I also have several other books about going to the potty PottyForMe– another favorite is Karen Katz’s A Potty for Me.  Karen has written a lot of really great books for babies and toddlers; we have several including Where’s Baby’s Belly Button and No Hitting.

I think David thinks sitting on the potty just means reading books about going to the potty. We’ll keep trying.

What Color is Monday?

This was a quick, engaging read: What Color is Monday? How Autism Changed One Family for the Better by Carrie Cariello.

whatcolorI’ve always been interested in reading books about families and children with disabilities (I guess I do have a special education degree. . . ). Carrie does a fabulous job of describing the ups and downs of parenting five children, one of whom is diagnosed with autism. She’s honest, the stories she shares are hilarious at times, and she manages to keep a positive outlook.  Also, for those of her readers who are not terribly familiar with autism, she does a good job of explaining terms such as perseverating and stimming, and keeping the book very readable.

I’ve read a lot of memoirs by moms, and this is one of my favorites so far.

The Hole in Our Gospel

Richard Stearns, in The Hole in Our Gospel, shares from holeinourgospelhis experiences as President of World Vision, and as a man wrestling with God’s call on his life. Although I didn’t read every single word in this book, I did enjoy the parts I read. Richard shared many inspiring stories of people around the world. One of my favorite stories involved a Zambian entrepreneur who successfully started and ran 13 different businesses.

Stearns also included plenty of challenging sayings and quotations. Here’s an African saying to chew on: “If you think you are too small to make a difference, try spending the night in a closed room with a mosquito.”

At the end of the book, Stearns includes other books, movies, and things to do to further grow in understanding poverty and doing something about it.

Two Toddler Favorites from Last Week

David’ s library bag is getting too heavy. I guess that’s a good thing?

Here are two favorites from last week:

firsttheegg First the Egg by Laura Vaccaro Seeger. I can see why this book earned a Caldecott Honor and a Theodor Seuss Geisel Honor. I can also see why many pages are ripped in the library version we checked out. Seeger wrote this book about transformations – seeds into flowers, caterpillars into butterflies – with captivating photos and toddler-appropriate language.

 

 

whose shoes a shoe for every job Whose Shoes? by Stephen R. Swinburne. This book was featured as PA’s 2011 One Book Every Child initiative, an early literacy program.  David loved guessing whose shoes were featured on each page – farmer, fire-fighter, construction work, etc. Perhaps he will decide to start wearing “big boy shoes” that are not soft-soled?